Wednesday, August 31, 2011
I am Pashmina fan
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
A storm in the form of a girl
Then I took a deep breath and quit waving my hands around like 'lil girl and got on with it. I have read some of the other folks response and I gotta warn you all now. I am not that deep. Or business-like. Or grown up.I blog simply because I want to be heard.
The one thing that struck me instantly was how refreshing it was to have the anonymity of text. I didn't have to be June Cleaver, I could just be me. I formed some very strong friendships and one relationship that lasted years via that game. And I think it had to do with the ability to remain anonymous via the internet. Granted I stopped being anonymous but by that time I had also gained a far greater comfort level in just being me.
I no longer play EQ but the bug for internet self expression stuck with me. Call it the siren song of text on a glowing screen. I blog to feel like I am heard. I blog to feel like someone, anyone out there, actually knows me. The really real me, not the one we all have to be to please bosses, spouses, parents and children. And if I can make someone else laugh it is icing on the cake.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Look How a Woman Blogs
In the beginning she was my only reader. Then as the months passed one reader became five then a dozen. People have come and gone, but a few have stayed on, bless their suffering souls. Some say they found my site through the Next Blog button, others through sites like Bestest Blogger of the Day, BlogBlast for Peace, and The Rising Blogger; some came via other bloggers.
I’ve found some great blogs via these avenues too – and made some amazing friends online. Mine is a personal site, not a business site. Its primary function was and is to be a way for me to express my thoughts and feelings. Sometimes I write about silly stuff, sometimes it’s about an aspect of life here in the Philippines, sometimes I spew when I’m feeling blue and angst-y, sometimes I write about family. I do it simply because I want to write about it, nothing less, nothing more. I won’t deny, though, that I love it when people say they like a certain post, or what I wrote on a certain day resonated with them, or when I find that somebody has linked to me without telling me – that’s always a nice surprise. I should mention that I don’t like it when bloggers exhibit this “I linked to you, so link to me too” attitude. The people in my blogroll are there because I like their blogs, not because they asked to be placed there.
Blogging is not only fun. It can also be cathartic. It’s an outlet for whatever creativity is brewing in me. It’s a personal endeavor that’s a gratifying part of my normal life, just like eating or sleeping or playing. Right now I don’t feel the need to promote my blog through aggregate sites. Getting good traffic is great, don’t get me wrong. But I don’t ever want to reach that point where getting more comments and awards and higher search engine rankings will eclipse the reason why I started blogging publicly in the first place: to write what I want to write about, not what I think others want to read. Having readers come and return is the icing on the cake, and they’re non-fattening!
Reading other blogs, though, has greatly influenced my way of thinking and the topics I write about sometimes. Also, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve learned something new from what someone else wrote. A certain writer will have a post that makes me think, so I’ll blog about that topic too and mention that I got the idea from him or her. All of us probably agree that blogging is a great way to share information, and one of the ways I like to share is to mention every Saturday a handful of blog entries written by others during that particular week.
There is a great number of terrific blogs out there: they’ve made me laugh hilariously, they’ve made me teary-eyed, they’ve left me breathless by the way they’re written, they’ve made me marvel at their visual creativity – these are some of the characteristics of blog posts I share with regular readers and passers-by on weekends. People have said they like my Blogworld Saturdays feature because it leads them to blogs they otherwise wouldn’t have known about, and that’s gratifying to know. What they don’t realize is it’s a way to turn them into blogging addicts like me, haha! I jest – sort of.
The comments section is another enjoyable part of the blogging experience. Sometimes the comments I get are much more interesting than the post itself! Reading comments can be both entertaining and enlightening. (I’ve also found a few blogs through comments left on other blogs – sometimes they intrigue me enough to want to know more about that person’s writings, and before I know it, presto! I’ve become the fan of another blogger.) Reading a post and leaving a comment is a good thing to do, but please, at least scan the post first before you say something! Reading something that’s totally unrelated to the post can make a person feel like he or she is on the receiving end of a wrong number.
The Internet is adding another dimension to how people learn and interact. Like it or not, it’s here to stay as a way for individuals to hear and be heard. Through blogging I’ve come across quite a few terrific people both near and far. It’s probably true that I will never meet these people personally, but that doesn’t mean I don’t cherish “meeting” them online. I do, and I look forward to meeting more and learning from them.
How to love a black woman

Reasons to use NET10 wireless service
a little of ASP.NET, a little of AJAX, a little of GIS, well ... an all Atlas, can I still call it that?
I wouldn’t say I blog, I would say I post links, news and code that I may need in future. As a software engineer, I need a searchable place where my notes and thought, but most important, my code can be found. I started in 2005 and after losing my database with all the post, I learn two important lessons: the fine art of backing up and second that I actually was using those notes and “articles” pretty often.Saturday, August 27, 2011
Phone plan choices by Straight Talk
Friday, August 26, 2011
Writing Thoughts
What is blog to me? I can tell you how I’ve progressed and what I’ve discovered along the way.
Blogging was a grand experiment for me. First, I wanted to see if anyone would read my blog. Secondly, I wanted to see if it would help my freelance writing business. Now, I am wondering if I can make money from it. Finally, I want to see if it can make a difference, however small.
Initially I thought, and perhaps others might think, that blogging is mainly about writing. What I’ve discovered is that, while it helps to have good writing skills, there is so much more to blogging. Successful bloggers must be: lifelong learners, social individuals, relevant, readers, and disciplined. (Of course, everyone has their own definition of success and yours may be different.) I’ll address each area individually.
Lifelong learning is an important blogging skill, not only to start a blog, but also to keep it going. There are so many areas to learn about. First, I needed to learn the best platform for my blog. There are a lot of questions a new blogger faces. Would I use a free platform like Blogger, or will I go with my own domain name and a hosting company? (I use my own domain name with BlueHost.) When that decision was made, I needed to learn how to manage my content, comments, and blogroll. I needed to learn how to download files to my site. I needed to learn how to use widgets. In fact, with a blog, the learning never stops. I probably learn at least one new thing every day.
Successful bloggers are social individuals. Unlike the diaries and journals that I was familiar with as a child, blogs are public. I decided very early on that I was not going to blog in a vacuum. I enabled my comments (with a spam filter turned on, of course) and I make an effort to interact with my readers. I answer their comments. I visit their blogs. I correspond through e-mail with several of my readers on a regular basis. I know people today that I wouldn’t know if I didn’t blog, and my life is richer for it. I also use some of the networking tools that the Internet provides. (It seems like there is a new tool out there every day.) Currently I am on: Blogg-buzz, MyBlogLog, SpicyPage, StumbleUpon, and Technorati.com. Last, but not least, I joined a blog network, GackInk, where I can mentor and be mentored.
Successful blogs must be relevant. When someone reads my blog they need to find something to hold their interest or they won’t return. Finding something relevant can be a stretching process for the blogger. I know that the questions “how would somebody use this information?” and “would anybody find this interesting?” stretch me. I’ve found that, if I have a question about something, usually others have the same question. That question is an opportunity for me to research the question and blog about it. I also find relevant topics for posts on forums, other blogs, and in everyday life.
I’m a big believer in the value of reading. I believe that the best writers were readers first. Reading definitely prepares me to blog. I read just about everything I can get my hands on: the newspaper, books, magazines, advertisements, other blogs, and the list goes on. Reading helps me recognize the difference between good writing and bad writing. Reading broadens my horizons and introduces me to new ideas and concepts. Reading also entertains me and gives me a reason to laugh. In short, reading has made me a writer and writing has made me a blogger.
Finally, bloggers have to be disciplined. One factor that many blog experts recommend for blogging success is consistency. It’s important to post new material on your blog on a regular basis. You’ve probably been frustrated, as I have, by finding an enjoyable blog, only to discover that there are no new entries. I try to have between three and five new posts on my blog each week. Most of them time I really enjoy blogging. It’s fun. It stimulates my creativity. I can post things that help others. I get to “meet” new people. However, to be totally honest, there are those days that I just don’t feel like posting. Maybe I’m sick. Maybe I’m buried with work. Maybe there are other issues bothering me. It helps to have a backlog of posts for those times. But sometimes, it just takes discipline to get that new post out there.
So, with WritingThoughts, my grand experiment goes on. I continue learning, making friends, finding what’s relevant, reading whatever I can, and discovering how to be disciplined in my approach to blogging.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Exseno on blogging
I don't even presume that my blog is a 'Fine Art', that would be a fantasy, but it is something that I love to do and it has given me a great deal of enjoyment over the years.
I started blogging simply because it was something new to me that I wanted to try. It was like discovering a new fad.
I try to keep it interesting so, my blog is varied. Sometimes it is personal stories, sometimes politics, sometimes informative. Sometimes it simply depends on what's going on at that particular time.
As time went on, I soon learned that blogging is a wonderful way to meet and get to know people , their customs, their thoughts and their opinions from all around the world, something that I would have never been able to do otherwise.
The people that I have known for so long are like old friends and I would never want to lose them.
I have learned more from blogging then I would ever have learn without it and I hope to keep the friends that I have met along the way and to make new ones in the future.
Red Shoe Diaries
Unlike the opinion of some people online, I don’t believe a blog needs to be defined. For some, blogging is a way to keep track of thoughts and personal growth. For others. it’s a way to catalog favorite quotes, poems, recipes, or any other tidbit of information that used to be collected and retained as intellectual treasure to the person who clipped it out and saved it in an old chocolate box. For others yet, blogs provide the means to share stories as opposite as a life or death struggle with cancer or a passion for gardening. Blogs can help people locate long lost family or friends, or even find a lifemate. Blogs take the place for many, of the newspaper columnist, providing a daily dose of humour and laughter to those who have stepped into this new world of internet communication and foregone the daily newspaper; blogs provide information for the knowledge seeker, on the technical ins and outs of communicating on the web.Wednesday, August 17, 2011
The Fine Art of Blogging
Universal aprons at Product Impex
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Enigma Uncovered
Enigma
Ever since I was old enough to tie my shoelaces, I’ve been a compulsive dairiser. The need to jot down the minutiae of my then uneventful life was so overwhelming that everything - from a watched episode of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, to what I had for dinner - was highlighted on rambling pages. I found comfort and a sense of wellbeing with my addiction, to me, it was a gateway to make sense of everything and everyone around me.However, I realized I was spending less and less time recording the happenings of my life with every passing birthday, and more time living the undocumented. Something had to give.
Moments were passing by without much recognition. I only had fading memories of events to rely on. I was failing terribly in my duty to capture, freeze and store moments, however insignificant. I knew I had to find a different approach if I wanted to have something to look back on, to have a slight remembrance of how things felt when I saw or experienced them through blurry glasses of retrospection.
That’s when I discovered the fine art of blogging.It was like a message from above (or from the internet, if you prefer). I had googled a college mate I was trying to reconnect with when I came across her blog. It was a pivotal moment in my life and a reaffirmation on the path I had to travel. I decided to open an account, and decided on Enigma: Girl Uncovered because I felt that, not only was my general thinking a mystery to many, but that my future in the blogesphere was just that… an enigma. Would it last? Would I make a difference in the world? Will people be interested to read what I had to say?
I quickly discovered that blogging was better than a hand written diary. Up until the point where I started blogging, my diary was receiving the “nothing much happened today” cold shoulder approach. I think the idea of an audience encouraged me to write on a regular basis. It must be the exhibitionist in me. The same one that is outspoken, drinks far too many Bloody Marys and sings karaoke at random bars. Even when I had experienced a dull day, I could reflect back on extraneous conversation and think how I can write them up and make them funny and interesting. Going through life trying to find something interesting to write about has been my saving grace in many ways. I’m now more aware, curious and informed. It has also helped me become a better writer [Not really, but it doesn’t hurt to push things a bit].
Another reason I enjoy blogging is the fact that it offers me a platform to interact with people around the world. I love that people can leave comments after a post, controversial or otherwise. Why people read my trifling ramblings is still a mystery to me, but I like it. The nobility of some comments are an everyday affirmation that I’m doing something right, and the tasteless ones, well, they create a balance and make life that much more interesting – I try and put a positive spin on it anyway. Conversely, blogging has been therapeutic for me. On many occasions it has resulted in tears, snot and a bloated face. I like to think this is a healthy and normal thing.
All in all, I’ve gotten to know interesting, funny, thought provoking and talented bloggers out there. And I’m very grateful for this opportunity….
*Places a tiara on head and waves arm in the air like Miss Universe*
And I wouldn’t trade this experience in for all the hand written diaries in the world. Offer my shoes and I might change my mind.
World peace!
Phew! I’m glad I got that out of the way. Now, for my ‘I want Angelina Jolie to Adopt Me’ post…
Friday, August 12, 2011
Net10 Unlimited Plan
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The Far Queue
- Pisces - my star sign and all the creative and melancholy lunacy that comes with it
- Iscariot – perfect surname for one who has betrayed all of the religious beliefs he was brought up to propagate.
The The Far Queue welcomes careful diverse.
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
SubSet
I've been "blogging" in one form or another since 1997. The word "blog" didn't exist then. Nor did Google - it was Yahoo! and Alta Vista then! ;)People had "personal websites" where they would "showcase" themselves, their interests, their hobbies, their photos, their art, their poetry and lyrics, their favourite websites, whatever.
Almost as an "aside", personal websites would include a journal, that was very much like an online diary. Or the forerunner of the blog. But it was only a part of a personal website, and was by no means the central focus.
We very rarely wrote consistently about a specific topic. We only used the word "niche" when talking about exclusive boutiques!
My reasons for blogging today are exactly the same as my reasons for "journaling" back in the day.
I love to write, express ideas, and reach out and meet other people. I started to met a lot of web designers in Sydney back then, through their personal sites and journals, and together a number of us went on to form the first inception of the Australian INfront, a community of Australian web designers, with the aim of raising the international perception of Australian web creatives.
I am still meeting a lot of cool and interesting people, and blogging for the most part is fun, although it is no longer quite the same "past time" activity it used to be. A lot of people taking blogging too seriously, yet it is those who don't that seem to, that have the most "success" (wish I was one of them...! ;)
Sometimes writing, or blogging, can feel like a chore, or feel downright boring. That's until I look back on a finished piece of writing, or a blog post, and think "I'm glad I wrote that, I feel good now!"
Monday, August 8, 2011
Table for Five
Girl Who Knows Your Boss
I began blogging within the last couple of months because I really wanted a way to bring together the readers of my nationally syndicated workplace column for Gannett News Service and USA Today. I have received hundreds of letters over the last 15 years of doing the column, and thought it might be helpful to let readers connect directly with one another about workplace issues.
I’ve always believed that information is power, and I think that the personal experiences and opinions from people in the work trenches can be helpful. I know that I learn something each time I interview an expert or read a workplace/career book, and I thought that I could share even more of that information through the blog, in addition to getting the input from others who visit it.
To me, a blog is a way to continue the conversation I have with readers every week through the column. It’s a chance to say, “Oh, yeah, and one more thing…”
For my blog, I focus strictly on issues that affect people at work. Usually, I include information that I wasn’t able to fit in the column, or something interesting that I saw in another publication or that I discovered in research of a workplace topic.
I’m relatively new to the blogging experience, but I think it’s just like any other life experience. You have to reach out to others, you have to put aside your fears and just go for it in order to really experience what’s out there. I promote my blog mostly through my column and my Web site (www.anitabruzzese.com). And, of course, I like talking to other bloggers and learning about them.
I became a journalist more than 20 years ago, post-Watergate. I have always felt that being a journalist is a calling, that it is a service to others. I didn’t get into it for the money or the fame or the chance to be on some talk show where I try to out-yell another “journalist.” To me, being a journalist is a chance to help others understand issues, to help them function better and get more out of life. I think blogging is like that in a lot of ways. Many bloggers out there do feel they have a higher calling that they’re trying to shed light on subjects that need to be discussed and revealed. They, like me, want to serve their community.
I get a real kick out of it when someone writes something on my blog. I love interviewing people, and getting to know what makes someone tick. I think when someone writes on the blog, I’m getting another chance to see what a person is thinking. That’s always interesting. As for making money? The only benefit to me is if someone becomes more familiar with my name and then goes out and buys a book….
I’ve learned you’ve got to keep your posts short. I overdid it in the beginning and my blogging friends told me I was too long-winded. Now, I think of myself more as a facilitator… I just try and get people interested in a subject and then get out of the way and let them have at it. It’s much more meaningful when you give them pertinent facts and then let them apply it to their own lives. I don’t think anyone likes to be preached at for very long…they’ll quickly lose interest if they don’t get a chance to have their say.
Starr
